For the most part I have no problem with the help that is given to some of these families. I really believe that the majority of the parents I work with are doing their best to provide for their families and the help we give them is really appreciated. There are other families I struggle with. It doesn't matter how much we give them - it is never enough. If these parents hear about school uniforms given to other kids they are in the office asking where their free uniforms are. Every Christmas these parents come in asking to be part of "Sub for Santa" or to qualify for any other holiday help we have. (Strangely enough these are the same kids who are driven to school in expensive cars, have every new video game/DVD they want and wear better clothes than I do on non-uniform days. Weird huh?)
This past week I gave backpacks to four of my students who didn't have one. (These backpacks were donated to the school by a member of the community.) This morning one of these students handed me an envelope. I've been collecting money for school pictures and book orders so I didn't think anything of it at the time. When I finally looked in the envelope I found $10 and these two notes



Ok. Sorry. I know I'm a dude, but seriously... I had a small burst of emotion when I read the last two sentences, then it quickly retreated.
ReplyDeleteWe qualify for free lunches. Where's MY backpack?
By the way, if I sent $10 in an envelope with my kid for his teacher, I might be a little offended if it came back to me. Just a thought. Maybe you should keep it... or find another way to give it back.
ReplyDeleteThat is so sweet. Those kinds of moments really restore your faith in people.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Cameron by the way. Maybe you could write them a nice note about how much you enjoy their kid (if you do) and then buy the whole class some treats.
Now that is a kid who is being taught well at home too, I love that he wrote a thank you too!
ReplyDeleteGood to know about the $10. I've questioned if I should or not. I felt like I should because I got the backpack for free. But I can always use it to buy treats for the class or something...
ReplyDeleteI don't know if I ever mention it, but I really am so impressed with your excitement to teach these kids who are disadvantaged. It would be really easy for you to teach at a school where the parents were super involved and the kids came from more economically advantaged families, but you have chosen to teach the kids that really need you. I'm going to stop now before I start to cry, but I really appreciate your example and the love you have for these kids.
ReplyDeleteThat was very sweet that you received those two thoughtful notes. Thanks for sharing. It is always very interesting to see who expresses gratitude and who does not.
ReplyDeleteWhat a cute blog! I was a teacher and loved it! It's so wonderful to see you so excited to teach and love your students. Keep it up!
ReplyDelete-Sandy toes